Making the decision to leave an abusive marriage in itself is an act of immense courage. However, the journey ahead continues to be intimidating and difficult.
The following paragraphs aim to provide information on divorcing an abusive spouse.
Apply for a personal protection order (PPO)
If you are a victim of family violence, you can apply for a PPO at the Protection Order Services counter of the Family Justice Courts of Singapore. Bring along any medical or police report you may have.
The Court can grant a personal protection order, an expedited order (with the threat of imminent danger) or a domestic exclusion order (where the aggressor is excluded from the home or parts of it).
However do note that it only takes effect the day that notice of it is served on the aggressor and only lasts 28 days (although it can be extended). An aggressor who breaches the PPO will be faced with a fine or imprisonment or both.
Make police reports and seek medical attention
Police reports of abuse can affect your spouse’s legal rights regarding children and prevent you from getting into legal trouble when you remove them from exposure to your abusive spouse. It is also important to seek medical attention and not make excuses for injuries sustained from abuse.
Gather evidence
Evidence can be in the form of photographic evidence (photos of damaged furniture/doors, injuries) or documentary evidence (recorded phone calls, text messages, emails) as well as eyewitness testimony.
However, do note that testimony by children may not always be considered as credible evidence in court and is a matter for the judge’s assessment in each case.
You may also want to wish to document things you do for the children (e.g. bringing them to school, testimonies from friends or teachers) to show that you are the primary caregiver.
How GJC Law Can Support You in Abuse Cases
In cases of abuse, it is crucial to seek the guidance of an experienced matrimonial lawyer. At GJC Law, we have extensive experience handling such matters and are committed to protecting both you and your children.
We will help you navigate legal technicalities, explain the options available to you, and provide clear advice aimed at achieving the best possible outcome.
In abusive relationships, where the power balance is often heavily skewed, our role is to ensure you are not pressured or intimidated into an unfair divorce agreement. With our experience and dedication, we work to secure your protection, your rights, and your future.
At your initial consultation stage, our Divorce Lawyers will:
- Assess if you can file for divorce in Singapore.
- Help you understand each step of the divorce process.
- Address questions & concerns related to divorce process.
- Help you explore your divorce options.
